I find that with all the openness in our sexual desires, kinks, fantasies that men have forgotten how to be gentlemen.  Just because she is submissive does not mean she is not a lady, a queen, a princess, and a gift.   Show her the respect, care, and love that she deserves for allowing you to be hers as much as she is yours.  Let her know there is more in life than just the sexual exploration and playfulness.  

Share love, passion, dreams while celebrating her beauty, her mind, her caring supportive spirit.